To all of you named and unnamed readers out there who leave nasty comments about how negative I am and how I bring all the drama in my world on by myself: YOU SUCK!!!
My husband is sitting in a hospital right now with pneumonia brought on by his immunosuppresant that he takes because he has an anaphylactic allergy to himself. My husband is supposed to have surgery next week but has to stop taking the medicine that keeps him alive and hope his throat doesn't close up on him to have the surgery. My fault? Really?
I had to buy a new car, which is a story in itself, because my 12 year-old one died. That means taking on a bill I can barely afford with all of hubby's chest x-rays, extra meds and MRIs. I can't afford it because the church reneged on its part of the financial deal when they brought Hubby here. Not to mention they moved us out to the country and I now drive 40 frigging miles a day. Did I bring that on myself? Simply because I didn't want E shot in a driveby? Hell no!
So you go ahead and say I bring this all on myself. You go ahead and tell me you are never going to read my blog again. I DON'T CARE!! You know why, because I am the biggest broad-shouldered bitch you have ever met and you couldn't walk 2 steps in my shoes much less live my life. I think I hold it together pretty damn well. SO get the hell off of my blog.
Mean people SUCK!
14 comments:
Muddy,
Don't let a few mean people ruin everything. They aren't worth your time. I wish I could do something for you, if nothing but listen and commiserate. Email me if you'd like to talk. God knows, I could use someone as well. :)
You often write about negative things but that doesn't mean that you're a negative person in general. It seems to me that this blog is a way for you to vent about problems. If people don't like it, why are they still reading?
I'm always amazed by the stupidity of anonymous people on the internet. Sorry, Muddy. Mean people do suck. Why read a blog one dislikes?
/ dw
Ah, Muddy. Don't let the mean people get to you, they aren't worth it.
I'm so sorry about your husband. I so wish you could get out of this place! I've read your blog for several years and love your writing. Don't listen to the negative. They can't be people worth knowing anyway. Good thoughts for your family.
Muddy, I'm so sorry you and your husband are going through all this right now. Bring this crap on yourself? Really? While the Internet can be a wonderful thing, the opportunity to be anonymous seems to bring out the worst in some trolls. Indeed, why read someone's blog if it upsets you? Simply go elsewhere and find someone more to your liking and mindset.
Sending positive thoughts your way.
I love that you share your problems. I don't want to read a blog thats all sunshine and lollipops. I want a real person dealing with real problems, dealing with real life, that I can relate to. We listen that what friends do. Ignore the haters!
Sorry you have to deal with people like that. You are doing your best in difficult situations and have every right to vent. Don't give them another thought. They aren't worth your time.
-a lurker in Albuquerque
Hi Muddy,
Another lurker, non commenter,longtime reader and I always feel like I want to give you a hug. I just can't beleive all the shit you have thrown at you again and again. Now the church isn't going to pay medical expenses? What! Anyway, I have never felt like you were negative at all. I wish you could move away from Country Time!!!
KH
Mean people do suck. Screw them.
WTH, M, do I need to cut a bitch?? To anonymous mean people. Having known Ms. Muddy for the majority of my life, I am here to tell you that you are a dazzling douche canoe and you are clueless. Completely. You literally have no clue at all about who this amazing person is. And if you are stupid enough to think you have the right to judge someones life from a blog, then you need to find a quiet little hole, sit in it and reflect on why you are spending time trolling the internet for people to pick on instead of focusing on your own problems. Because that's what people with problems they don't want to deal with do. They pick on other people. Get a life, get your own blog, get a clue and get the hell out of here.
(((( Muddy )))) I got your back.
So sorry to hear about your husband's health problems. Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. Mean people just want everyone to be as miserable and pathetic as they are. I've found that completely ignoring their existence pisses them off and takes the wind out of their sails!
Right now my life sucks. My dementia maybe Alzheimer's MIL who has always hated me moved into my house. After she was here my husband told me I brought this monster into our home. Since November she has tormented me and abused me. I can't even sit down to go the toilet in peace that she wouldn't roll her wheel chair as close to my bedroom door and call out. Like the time she needed a stamp immediately and was calling her son telling him what a bitch I was. She is a clone to my stepfather who beat me, sexually molested me and mentally crippled me. She's called people on her private line and told her friends a thousand miles away that I locked her in her room. She's accused me of giving her things to give her diarrhea - which she left on the floor and walls to dry over night for me to clean up. Telling me I wasn't good enough for her son wasn't a revelation but a confirmation. Sometimes all I've got to look forward to is reading what you write; good, bad, whatever to take me away from the fucking hell hole my life has become. I'm always anonymous because I don't want anyone to know who I am and how much my life sucks. If my MIL could use the internet she would be a hate filled monger of bitter bile upon people like you because she's mentally ill and could get away with it. Don't focus on the losers because they're already fucking over so many people and can only take satisfaction in destruction. Share your world. Speak your mind for those of us in a living nightmare too afraid to tell the world of the horror our lives have become. Do it for people like me, who are falling apart and have no one who can help them.
Well Muddy, I for one enjoy your blog. I'm in Australia and I love your descriptions of life in the USA. I used to work in the Media industry and can tell you that there are always going to be the creepy, rude and just plain nasty "people" out there. you can't escape them, just grow an extra layer of skin and shrug it off. Keep writing for me, okay?
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